Valentine’s Day isn’t for everyone. Maybe you aren’t big on the cutesy pink and white aesthetic or the rampant commercialization of the holiday. Believe me, we get it! That’s why we’ve compiled this list of ways to celebrate your gothic romance that don’t involve a box of chocolates. If you’re someone who wishes February 14th could be a second Halloween—or “Valloween”—give these goth romantic Valentine’s Day ideas a try.
Take a Stroll through the Cemetery
This classic goth date idea was famously perfected by the original queen of gothic lit Mary Shelley (who had a famous graveyard rendezvous with her then-fiancé, the poet Percy Shelley). A tree-lined cemetery with older tombstones will set a romantic scene—grab some paper and charcoal or crayons and take a gravestone rubbing while you’re there to commemorate the day. If you walk arm-in-arm under the moonlight, so much the better.
Share a Spooky Cocktail
If you and your special ghoul are into mixology, you can kick off your Valentine’s festivities with a goth cocktail. Whether you want a sip before heading out to a fancy dinner or a dark and romantic nightcap, these drinks with sophisticated yet spooky vibes will do the trick.
Have a Dark Romance Movie Marathon
If your idea of a rom-com is a little more twisted than the average moviegoer’s, you can make some popcorn and watch your favorite gothic romance movies with your sweetie. Plus, it’s one of the best cheap valentine’s day ideas that proves you don’t have to spend a lot of money to enjoy a whirlwind romance.
Give these dark romantic films a try this year:
Plan a Scavenger Hunt
This one takes a little planning, but it’s a delightfully fun way to spend your Valloween. First, plant some small gifts or cute cards in locations that are significant to you and your partner (such as where you had your first date, or inside a book you both like), with a clue in each one about where to go next. The ultimate destination is up to you, as long as it’s swooningly romantic.
Stargazing
If you’re looking for a unique Valentine’s Day idea, why not cozy up and commune with the night? A stargazer app like Sky Tonight can help you identify the constellations and planets you’re looking at and notify you of upcoming astronomical events like meteor showers. Bring along some hot chocolate or mulled wine to stay warm, and don’t forget a blanket.
Try these alternative Valentine’s Day plans this year, and share your love of the spooky side of life with your companion in darkness.